You know, it’s been a two weeks since I made a blog post. All I’ve been able to do lately is nothing but my job and my daily routine made me so tired. But I’ve finally got around to write. So here you go. Hope y’all have a good read.
So I decided to write about the question crosses my mind mostly Why do so many people feel the need to make fun of and judge others? Why must people judge others by what they wear or what they look like?
I wonder why we, as humans, feel the need to judge and degrade others. Who are we to judge how others act, look, dress or who they hang out with?
Always remember, treat others how you want to be treated.
Mentally handing out labels, like ” rich or poor, happy or sad”.
You can’t judge me by seeing my picture. If I looks happy or I always smiles doesn’t mean that I am happy from inside and I think giving smile is easier than explaining why you are sad. Also you can’t judge me by my dressing or anything because you don’t know about myself or my life So don’t judge others by their appearance Judging someone on appearance is not OK. Doesn’t matter if its height, weight, skin tone, or anything else. You shouldn’t judge a person by their exterior because you don’t know their story. There are hundreds of reasons someone might be happy or sad and its not under the control of anyone to be happy or sad. So don’t judge a book by its cover, open up the book, learn more, and then make your decision.
Judging others sometimes gives people a sense of prestige because demeaning others can create a false sense of security and identity. When it comes down to it, people are different. No two people are completely alike. If someone has a good dressing doesn’t mean he belongs to rich/upper class family and on other side if someone not wears a good clothes or not shows any things doesn’t mean he is from poor family or middle class family. We need to accept these differences and stop judging people. It is hurtful to them and makes the people ridiculing them look bad.
It goes with the saying: If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.
Consider a tree for a moment. As beautiful as trees are to look at, we don’t see what goes on underground as they grow roots. Thee must develop deep roots in order to grow strong and produce their beauty. But we don’t see the roots. We just see and enjoy the beauty. In much the same way, what goes on inside of us is like the roots of a tree.
I hear people say things about others all the time without consequences and this encourages them to continue getting their laughs through other peoples’ pain. It’s hard to listen to, but it can be stopped.
All in all, I hope that more people start out with open minds and reduce the amount they talk about, make fun of, and judge others. Once more and more people begin to do this, it will result in a happier life for all.
To those who feel as though community members have labeled them keep your chin up. Prove them wrong. Most importantly, always stay true to yourself.
Thanks for your time…